Probably the most embarrassing ordeal a man has to go through in the bedroom is his inability to control his orgasm. Premature ejaculation is a VERY real and frustrating problem that many guys have to deal with, and sex becomes a LOT less satisfying as a result... for both the man and his female partner!
But there is no need to let PE affect your intimate life. In fact, the sooner you fix it, the more erotically fulfilled your life is going to be (... and of course, she's going to look forward to a lot more sex with you to boot!).
So how do you fix premature ejaculation, enhance your stamina in between the sheets and gain more sexual confidence? Let's find out with these 2 quick and easy tips!
"Pubococcygeus Magic"
A lot of your ejaculatory control is dependent on how strong your PC (or pubococcygeus) muscles are. These are the muscles that control the flow of urine and semen. The next time you are in the washroom, try stopping your urine mid-stream. You will notice a specific muscle between your anus and testes that contracts.
Strong PC muscles enable you to overcome your involuntary urge to ejaculate until you are ready for a climax, or until your partner is sexually gratified... whichever comes later!
Most men have very weak PC muscles. But the great thing is, you can strengthen these muscles by performing simple PC contraction exercises in just a few minutes a day.
"Delayed Gratification"
Men and women are wired very differently when it comes to sex. Men usually go straight for intercourse; women prefer a slow, sensuous build up to penetrative sex. Many men come to an orgasm within 2 minutes; the majority of women require 10 to 15 minutes of arousal to reach one. And the main reason why so many men ejaculate quickly is because their penis glans is stimulated too fast during penetration, even when their ladies are not ready!
Sex is a lot more fulfilling if you first focus on your partner's needs. Refrain from engaging in intercourse until you know she is ready. Heighten her anticipation first, by pleasing her sensual spots, from head to toe before reaching her genitals (women LOVE to be pleased in this manner!).
In all honesty, a man's penis is the worst "equipment" to pleasure a woman. So use your tongue and your fingers instead. This will keep your arousal from boiling over too quickly, and will help you last a lot longer too!
Sunday, January 9, 2011
How To Prevent Yourself From Ejaculating Early - 3 Easy Tips To Make You Go Longer During Sex
It is often said that a man's sexual stamina is a measure of his prowess in bed, and your ability to prevent yourself from ejaculating early is key to giving your woman sensational sex. But the sad truth is that the vast majority of men out there tend to struggle with premature ejaculation. The resulting frustration and distress often cause many guys to shy away from initiating sexual contact with their wives or partners, and ultimately affecting their romantic relationships.
What most men don't know is that premature ejaculation is actually one of the most easily treated sexual conditions, if they have the right information and advice on hand. Here are 3 practical tips that you can employ tonight to get back the freedom to go the distance...
1. Slow, Selfless Lovemaking: Women take far longer than men to warm up during sex. So shower her with plenty of passionate attention and exploration in the prelude to intercourse. Foreplay is the quintessential factor for women to enjoy sensational lovemaking, and even more important for a man to prevent himself from finishing too early during sex.
2. Go Easy On The Movements: The more thrusting you attempt during intercourse, the more likely you will experience an untimely ejaculation. An easy way to overcome this is to give your female partner MORE control. The less movement you make, the easier it becomes for you to manage your arousal. Getting her on top is a recommended position for guys who wish to go that extra mile during penetrative sex.
3. Having Open Communications: This is under-rated by many men. But one of the keys to overcoming premature ejaculation is to simply bring this issue out in the open with your partner. Interestingly many women misjudge PE as a case of their men finding them unattractive, and thus wanting to get things over and done with! By being truthful with her, you can alleviate a lot of sexual distress and frustration. This will give you a lot more confidence to deal with premature ejaculation.
What most men don't know is that premature ejaculation is actually one of the most easily treated sexual conditions, if they have the right information and advice on hand. Here are 3 practical tips that you can employ tonight to get back the freedom to go the distance...
1. Slow, Selfless Lovemaking: Women take far longer than men to warm up during sex. So shower her with plenty of passionate attention and exploration in the prelude to intercourse. Foreplay is the quintessential factor for women to enjoy sensational lovemaking, and even more important for a man to prevent himself from finishing too early during sex.
2. Go Easy On The Movements: The more thrusting you attempt during intercourse, the more likely you will experience an untimely ejaculation. An easy way to overcome this is to give your female partner MORE control. The less movement you make, the easier it becomes for you to manage your arousal. Getting her on top is a recommended position for guys who wish to go that extra mile during penetrative sex.
3. Having Open Communications: This is under-rated by many men. But one of the keys to overcoming premature ejaculation is to simply bring this issue out in the open with your partner. Interestingly many women misjudge PE as a case of their men finding them unattractive, and thus wanting to get things over and done with! By being truthful with her, you can alleviate a lot of sexual distress and frustration. This will give you a lot more confidence to deal with premature ejaculation.
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