Probably the most embarrassing ordeal a man has to go through in the bedroom is his inability to control his orgasm. Premature ejaculation is a VERY real and frustrating problem that many guys have to deal with, and sex becomes a LOT less satisfying as a result... for both the man and his female partner!
But there is no need to let PE affect your intimate life. In fact, the sooner you fix it, the more erotically fulfilled your life is going to be (... and of course, she's going to look forward to a lot more sex with you to boot!).
So how do you fix premature ejaculation, enhance your stamina in between the sheets and gain more sexual confidence? Let's find out with these 2 quick and easy tips!
"Pubococcygeus Magic"
A lot of your ejaculatory control is dependent on how strong your PC (or pubococcygeus) muscles are. These are the muscles that control the flow of urine and semen. The next time you are in the washroom, try stopping your urine mid-stream. You will notice a specific muscle between your anus and testes that contracts.
Strong PC muscles enable you to overcome your involuntary urge to ejaculate until you are ready for a climax, or until your partner is sexually gratified... whichever comes later!
Most men have very weak PC muscles. But the great thing is, you can strengthen these muscles by performing simple PC contraction exercises in just a few minutes a day.
"Delayed Gratification"
Men and women are wired very differently when it comes to sex. Men usually go straight for intercourse; women prefer a slow, sensuous build up to penetrative sex. Many men come to an orgasm within 2 minutes; the majority of women require 10 to 15 minutes of arousal to reach one. And the main reason why so many men ejaculate quickly is because their penis glans is stimulated too fast during penetration, even when their ladies are not ready!
Sex is a lot more fulfilling if you first focus on your partner's needs. Refrain from engaging in intercourse until you know she is ready. Heighten her anticipation first, by pleasing her sensual spots, from head to toe before reaching her genitals (women LOVE to be pleased in this manner!).
In all honesty, a man's penis is the worst "equipment" to pleasure a woman. So use your tongue and your fingers instead. This will keep your arousal from boiling over too quickly, and will help you last a lot longer too!
Sunday, January 9, 2011
How To Prevent Yourself From Ejaculating Early - 3 Easy Tips To Make You Go Longer During Sex
It is often said that a man's sexual stamina is a measure of his prowess in bed, and your ability to prevent yourself from ejaculating early is key to giving your woman sensational sex. But the sad truth is that the vast majority of men out there tend to struggle with premature ejaculation. The resulting frustration and distress often cause many guys to shy away from initiating sexual contact with their wives or partners, and ultimately affecting their romantic relationships.
What most men don't know is that premature ejaculation is actually one of the most easily treated sexual conditions, if they have the right information and advice on hand. Here are 3 practical tips that you can employ tonight to get back the freedom to go the distance...
1. Slow, Selfless Lovemaking: Women take far longer than men to warm up during sex. So shower her with plenty of passionate attention and exploration in the prelude to intercourse. Foreplay is the quintessential factor for women to enjoy sensational lovemaking, and even more important for a man to prevent himself from finishing too early during sex.
2. Go Easy On The Movements: The more thrusting you attempt during intercourse, the more likely you will experience an untimely ejaculation. An easy way to overcome this is to give your female partner MORE control. The less movement you make, the easier it becomes for you to manage your arousal. Getting her on top is a recommended position for guys who wish to go that extra mile during penetrative sex.
3. Having Open Communications: This is under-rated by many men. But one of the keys to overcoming premature ejaculation is to simply bring this issue out in the open with your partner. Interestingly many women misjudge PE as a case of their men finding them unattractive, and thus wanting to get things over and done with! By being truthful with her, you can alleviate a lot of sexual distress and frustration. This will give you a lot more confidence to deal with premature ejaculation.
What most men don't know is that premature ejaculation is actually one of the most easily treated sexual conditions, if they have the right information and advice on hand. Here are 3 practical tips that you can employ tonight to get back the freedom to go the distance...
1. Slow, Selfless Lovemaking: Women take far longer than men to warm up during sex. So shower her with plenty of passionate attention and exploration in the prelude to intercourse. Foreplay is the quintessential factor for women to enjoy sensational lovemaking, and even more important for a man to prevent himself from finishing too early during sex.
2. Go Easy On The Movements: The more thrusting you attempt during intercourse, the more likely you will experience an untimely ejaculation. An easy way to overcome this is to give your female partner MORE control. The less movement you make, the easier it becomes for you to manage your arousal. Getting her on top is a recommended position for guys who wish to go that extra mile during penetrative sex.
3. Having Open Communications: This is under-rated by many men. But one of the keys to overcoming premature ejaculation is to simply bring this issue out in the open with your partner. Interestingly many women misjudge PE as a case of their men finding them unattractive, and thus wanting to get things over and done with! By being truthful with her, you can alleviate a lot of sexual distress and frustration. This will give you a lot more confidence to deal with premature ejaculation.
Erectile -Dysfunction, Premature-Ejaculation
Erectile - Dysfunction, Premature-Ejaculation, Sexual-Weakness or Impotency, are common to the penis. Most men suffer the above mentioned sexual problems and not able to make lovproblems bothering men and women. It is the desire of all to indulge in sexual feelings or sexual acts. It is our natural state of mind to feel this way and naturally make love and produce other life form. Statistics recently showed most men think of sex every three minutes. This means a man is a sex animal, and like to have sex regularly or very frequently, but inability to have an erection is a problem for man to have his desire.
Certain biological conditions may affect nervous systems or blood flowe. All mentioned problems associates with or cause by stress and related to excessive smoking, anxiety, alcoholism, work fatigue and other medical conditions.
Some of the above problems make men and women find it difficult to relax and enjoy sex in naturally. These problems made men shoot quick, if you like my expression before women or their partner have time to have orgasm.
Some men and women even refused to have relationship, they avoid sex and marriage. Premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction and all forms of impotency make people lose self esteem and avoid partners and become temporarily inactive in relationships and feel rejected in the family and friends circles.
Most will even want to have sex, but due to inability to get or maintain an erection sufficient to have satisfactory sex. Above conditions can occur at any age but commonly in men over 60 years old.
Some women also have the same medical conditions and have similar situation and suffer similar problems, also they suffer emotional trauma and remain depressed and will avoid sex and will not be able to have orgasm when making love, and they are always moody and avoid men's company.
Erectile Dysfunction can be a temporary situation created by a stressful working life, or it's simply your reaction to a less than adorable attitude that's lately been forced upon you by your lady. Or maybe it's just a lack of enough sleep, or worrying too much about money, or focusing on getting ahead with your career.
Certain biological conditions may affect nervous systems or blood flowe. All mentioned problems associates with or cause by stress and related to excessive smoking, anxiety, alcoholism, work fatigue and other medical conditions.
Some of the above problems make men and women find it difficult to relax and enjoy sex in naturally. These problems made men shoot quick, if you like my expression before women or their partner have time to have orgasm.
Some men and women even refused to have relationship, they avoid sex and marriage. Premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction and all forms of impotency make people lose self esteem and avoid partners and become temporarily inactive in relationships and feel rejected in the family and friends circles.
Most will even want to have sex, but due to inability to get or maintain an erection sufficient to have satisfactory sex. Above conditions can occur at any age but commonly in men over 60 years old.
Some women also have the same medical conditions and have similar situation and suffer similar problems, also they suffer emotional trauma and remain depressed and will avoid sex and will not be able to have orgasm when making love, and they are always moody and avoid men's company.
Erectile Dysfunction can be a temporary situation created by a stressful working life, or it's simply your reaction to a less than adorable attitude that's lately been forced upon you by your lady. Or maybe it's just a lack of enough sleep, or worrying too much about money, or focusing on getting ahead with your career.
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